irishfan2007
Jan 9, 2012, 09:18 PM
Well here it goes... A little about me so you can try and put yourself in my shoes before I put my current "Women" situation out there. I'm 22 years old and enjoying every bit of it. Not trying to be all about myself but I would say I'm a good looking guy, I usually here the word cute from some of ladies when out and about. So you would think I'd have all the confidence in the world when it comes to the ladies, right?. Nope not one bit. I'm pretty shy when I first meet people, definitely when it comes to the ladies. Somehow my mojo just disappears. I would say I'm kind of brand new to the whole dating game.For the past 3-4 years I had been with the same girl and we decided to call it quits about 6 or so months ago. So now I'm back on the dating block and feeling BRAND NEW at it which leads me to my current situation...
My friends and I usually hit up a local spot for some brewskis generally once or twice a week. Most of the time its just your usual's and couple randoms here and there but for the most part a pretty chill area for young adults to drink and have fun, oh and plenty of good looking girls as well. We ended up grabbing a couple of beers this past Friday night at the local spot. It was a decent night there, everyone in there general groups having fun and what not. While playing pool with a couple of the boys, a group of girls were passing when me and one of them made a brief but clearly important eye contact because about 5 minutes later no more, she ended coming over and introduced herself to me and the rest of the guys. We all started talking and what not but throughout the first conversation she was clearly directing herself towards myself and it ended up just being a one on one conversation with herself and I. I ended buying her a drink and basically talked about the basics but I mostly tried to ask questions and let her do the talking. Smart move?. maybe.. But anyhow we talked for a little while longer and I had built up enough courage to ask her for her number but somehow when I had asked we got interrupted by my boys (*******s lol) and we ended up going back to hanging with what group we came with.
As me and the boys where leaving she came up to me and said something along the lines of... why would you be leaving without my number, something along those lines.So of course I got her number. I sent her a txt that night/early morning letting her know that it was the guy she had met at the bar. She ended up txting me back 10 minutes later stating that some of her guy friends she new that where there at the bar "where flipping out that she was talking to me...However, it was nice meeting you." Her txt word for word... I just responded stating All right, It was nice meeting you as well. End of night I got mixed signals from that txt and didn't really no how to respond to it but what I wrote... bad thing? Good thing?
Now 3 days later I haven't called or sent her a txt yet. I'd say I'm pretty confused on what to do. I feel like I was sent mixed signals... maybe not and I'm just blowing this out of proportion. I'd say this is the first time that a girl hasn't fallen into my lap but remain a mystery. I need help about what to do and how to go from here! Do I send her a txt, do I call, Am I reading her wrong, I just really am not sure of myself about how to go about from here. PLEASE HELP
My friends and I usually hit up a local spot for some brewskis generally once or twice a week. Most of the time its just your usual's and couple randoms here and there but for the most part a pretty chill area for young adults to drink and have fun, oh and plenty of good looking girls as well. We ended up grabbing a couple of beers this past Friday night at the local spot. It was a decent night there, everyone in there general groups having fun and what not. While playing pool with a couple of the boys, a group of girls were passing when me and one of them made a brief but clearly important eye contact because about 5 minutes later no more, she ended coming over and introduced herself to me and the rest of the guys. We all started talking and what not but throughout the first conversation she was clearly directing herself towards myself and it ended up just being a one on one conversation with herself and I. I ended buying her a drink and basically talked about the basics but I mostly tried to ask questions and let her do the talking. Smart move?. maybe.. But anyhow we talked for a little while longer and I had built up enough courage to ask her for her number but somehow when I had asked we got interrupted by my boys (*******s lol) and we ended up going back to hanging with what group we came with.
As me and the boys where leaving she came up to me and said something along the lines of... why would you be leaving without my number, something along those lines.So of course I got her number. I sent her a txt that night/early morning letting her know that it was the guy she had met at the bar. She ended up txting me back 10 minutes later stating that some of her guy friends she new that where there at the bar "where flipping out that she was talking to me...However, it was nice meeting you." Her txt word for word... I just responded stating All right, It was nice meeting you as well. End of night I got mixed signals from that txt and didn't really no how to respond to it but what I wrote... bad thing? Good thing?
Now 3 days later I haven't called or sent her a txt yet. I'd say I'm pretty confused on what to do. I feel like I was sent mixed signals... maybe not and I'm just blowing this out of proportion. I'd say this is the first time that a girl hasn't fallen into my lap but remain a mystery. I need help about what to do and how to go from here! Do I send her a txt, do I call, Am I reading her wrong, I just really am not sure of myself about how to go about from here. PLEASE HELP