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AlainaF
Jan 8, 2012, 12:18 PM
I lost my boyfriend nearly 3 months ago, and the "doctors" don't know what from. Now,I KNOW for a fact that the ER is the one to blame for his death. He was a healthy 16 year old, and all of a sudden, he broke his leg, and died the next day. I loved him to death, and I never would have thought of my life without him. No, it wasn't a blood clot. Ever since he died, I have cried myseld to sleep, I cry at random momens in the day, and I don't enjoy my horseback riding nearly as much as I did. In a matter of two days, I went from being on top of the world, to downhill spiral. I miss him so much, and I'm only 14. I don't know how to deal with all this.

pezelj
Jan 8, 2012, 06:19 PM
Grief affects us all differently, you need to talk to your parents so that they can help you deal with your grief and if necessary help you find grief counseling for youth.

A book you might ask your parents for is "When a Friend Dies: A Book for Teens About Grieving & Healing" by Marilyn E. Gootman

Fr_Chuck
Jan 8, 2012, 07:20 PM
Try a grief support group locally, perhaps professional counseling.

angel66647
Jan 8, 2012, 10:06 PM
Actually a blood cloth would be the most common cause of death considering he was healthy