bignick22
Jan 8, 2012, 09:26 AM
As you might be able to tell we're in high school, but we've been dating for over and year and we've both said we love each other. We go to different schools and live about 45 minutes away. I definitely want her to have friends, my only issue is last time she was part of a clique like this I didn't get along with one of the guys, so she completely excluded me from it and we went for a month where we barely saw each other and she kept ditching me to go hang out with her group of friends. That ended when she got in a fight with one of the guys in the group (the one who I didn't get along with). Since then our relationship has been great, but now she's starting to join another clique, and she has already ditched me for them and won't invite me to hang out with them. We barely have any mutual friends, and I thought her new group might be an opportunity to make some. I don't know what I should do or how I should feel, I don't have that many friends of my own to hang out with, and she's pretty much the center of my social life, so I'm a little bit over possessive, but I've been trying to change. Now I just feel hurt and excluded and worried that she's not going to spend any time with me anymore.