View Full Version : Should I dump him?
jazzejazz
Jan 6, 2012, 06:36 PM
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 weeks and he hugged me for the first time today. I was a little mad it took him so long to hug me. He is really shy but he is becoming more social. My friends think he is ugly but kind. He is very sweet and I can tell that he likes me a lot. I only agreed to date him because I felt bad for him but I like a little now.
Handyman2007
Jan 6, 2012, 07:14 PM
I don't know how old you are but my guess is early teens. Never date someone because you feel sorry for them. Date someone because you want to really be with them.
talaniman
Jan 6, 2012, 10:10 PM
Dump him WHY??
Ice_Princess
Jan 8, 2012, 09:17 PM
So why are you dumping him? Because you're liking for him has been increasing? Because he respects you (or is shy)? Personally, I would never date anyone out of pity because I think being honest first saves them time, money, etc, in the long run. But for others, it works out for them. Because like you, they start to fall for them. It's some people's way of giving everyone a fair chance, and you definitely have given him a chance. Whether he'll treasure the chance or not is up to him.
Is there anyone else you have your eye on? Would you rather be single than continue the relationship? What it really comes down to is, right now, would you rather have him or do without? Your answer is the answer.
mizzies
Jan 24, 2012, 07:22 PM
Hi! I think you should wait it out for a week or 2 and see if things change if he hugs you more, shows he cares about u, if your friends don't like him then they don't have to. They are not the one who is dating him if you like him date him but wait to see if things change with his actions around you and then narrow down all the good and bad things about him. Not the good and bad things your friends say are good or bad what you think! Just saying :)