I'm having the same issues but in reverse. I'm the husband with a wife that cannot let her son who is 23 years old be a man and fend for himself. He tried to man up on me once before, and I had to beat him like a man, which in turn caused her to make him move in with his 20-year-old sister which lasted for only 3 months because she said he was not doing anything but playing PS3 all night and sleep all day.

She let her apartment go. He called my wife that he had nowhere to go. I came home and there he was, sitting in my living room. She begged me to let him stay for 30 days until he finds a job and moves out. That was 6 months ago and here we are. It's 1-3-12 and he's still playing PS3 all night and sleeping all day.

It takes all I have not to put my hands on him and go BAM! Because I know I will go to jail. Someone please HELP!! SAM