View Full Version : My boyfriend won't have sex with me even when I flat out ask him to
smashley008
Jan 1, 2012, 06:22 PM
My boyfriend won't have sex with me even when I straight up ask him , he will just kiss me an act like we might then blow me off , we live together an always had great sex life up until recently he is very distant wnt touch me or anything , I have to basically say . He cuddles with me but all intiate sex an he just won't . I don't know what to do I am very frusterated an its making me go insane. I don't want to drive us more apart. Even though he is...
Ddrodjr
Jan 2, 2012, 03:46 AM
Try spicing things up! When he comes home from work wear something sexy!
nitelight198073
Jan 2, 2012, 01:47 PM
Has anything traumatic happened in his life lately.. death in the family or loss of job... these could be things bothering him... cheating also comes to mind... Have you flat out asked him why he won't have sex with you hun I think you two need to talk
jenniepepsi
Jan 4, 2012, 10:06 PM
How old are you both? Depending on age, it could be a factor.
Babykins15
Apr 30, 2012, 11:51 PM
I am having the same problem been together 6 months and living together for 3 of them, after we moved in together I have to beg now its been 2 weeks I've straighe up asked two nights ago he acted like we would then that night nothing even though I brought it up and I brought it up tonight and nothing I'm 19 and he's 22, I need help too what do I do too since we have similar situations
SentientAndroid
May 1, 2012, 07:07 AM
Welcome to our (men) world!
But seriously though, have you simply asked him why he doesn't want to?
yourprivatewar
May 30, 2012, 02:42 PM
I'm having the same problem, been together 9 months, have had amazing sex life until recently, nothing traumatic has happened, and when I ask he just says he likes 'normal' time when we're together, like friends... am I being friend zoned?