Ok fast forward to a few weeks ago. This girl gets a new phone and makes a Facebook event asking for numbers, which I'm invited to. She has over 500 friends on Facebook, but only about 20 people give or take a few responded, so she probably only invited people she cared about.

I wait a week to comment with my number because I want to focus on studying and the like. The next day, she texts me saying things like "guess who it is?" We then talk a bit. I ask her to hang out but she says she couldn't. And I say OK no problem.

Then a week and a half goes by without talking to her, again, because I want to focus on finals. She then texts and calls me saying she misses me and wants to talk. She does this while I'm studying, but I didn't mind. Anyway, we talked for about an hour.

A few days later, I texted her, and we talked for a bit. I said that we should hang out this week, and she says yeah we should. She also mentions that she changed her hair color, so she looks different. I tell her that I'd call her sometime this week.

So 5 days later, I call her, and ask to hang out. She says she's studying for a test she has when she goes back to school, and that she promised her parents she'd study. She said that she could after, and she'd text me in an hour. She never texted me all day.

So the next day, while I'm out, I texted her saying something like "so you forgot about me?" She texts back saying that she didn't, and she texted me. She said she thought I didn't respond was because I was busy and that she didn't want to call and bother me after texting. I told her that I didn't get any text and then she calls me saying how much this sucks. Now, I don't know if she's telling me the truth or not.

When she called, she asked me if I was doing anything on Monday, and we can hang out then. I said I guess I can. She says she'd call me later that day. She didn't call. I texted her that night to see if we were definitely hanging out on Monday. She didn't respond.

Now most of that is just a bit of back story. My main question is, if she didn't really want to hang out with me when she said she would, would she call me explaining what happened and bring up plans for another day?

Now we have hung out before several times. Just us two, and it was great.

Sorry if this is kind of long. I just really like her, and I'm quite confused.

She's 16 by the way

She could just be nervous? I mean, from what you've said she likes you or she wouldn't have contacted you in the first place but maybe you should confront her about it? Ask her if she really does want to meet you instead of just telling you she wants to meet so it doesn't hurt your feelings? That's the only thing I can suggest.x

dude, she likes you, that's a giving. If you've hungout before, just you two, and it went great, then that's obi=viusly good, there are literally thousands of reasons she didn't repsond, for example, she might just be forgetful, who isn't sometimes. This is from personal experirience, I met this girl, we became instant friends, we talked a lot, texted a lot, we hungout a couple times alone, then outa nowhere she stops talking to me for three months, because she was in japan, on a exchange trip. You just got to relax, you've got a lot on your mind, with finals and stuff, I gairentee (I have really bad spelling by the way) that you will see her again.