DaveDigsGardens
Feb 12, 2007, 10:08 AM
17 yrs ago an ex-sleep over gal of mine, showed up at my house with welfare documents for me to sign, that admitted I was her newborn daughter's father and that I WOULD pay child support. Stupidly (and very drunk) I signed the paper. I hadn't even known this woman was pregnant until about a week before she delivered. I PAID child support for yrs, then was in a bad accident and off work for well over a year. Arrears grew to say the least. I am still paying child support though I have no relationship with the child. The child, in the last year or so, has expressed great interest in finding out who is her father---having heard from many people that there were many candidates. The mother only recently agreed to a DNA--after asking child support services if I would still have to pay my support. Well, I will until the child is 18. I am fine with that. BUT, if we get this DNA done and it is established I am not the child's father (there are at least two other possibilities), can I get the arrears dropped? The child was born and lives in WA. I live in CA.:(