I have a friend of two years who recently got a boyfriend. I'm not to attracted to him, but we started talking on Facebook and now he texts me daily. We talk about sex and hooking up and stuff but I feel guilty. He says that my friend shouldn't mind but I still feel bad. My "friend" really isn't a friend since she goes crazy about anything, she puts me down often. And I wonder if I'm just messing with her guy because of this. I'm not a slut so no need comments please.

What do YOU think about your behavior?

So if your friend does not mind, send her a copy ? Do you think she will mind

Since I've never done this before I feel horrible. She would mind if I would send her copy.

And if you had a boyfriend, would you want him texting like that to your friend.

Of course it's wrong and you know it is... so why are you doing it?

Since I've never done this before I feel horrible. She would mind if I would send her copy.

Clearly you know its wrong. Texting ANYTHING but platonic messages would be wrong and even that is iffy.

The yardstick for measuring whether any behavior is right is how you would feel if it was done to you. If you wouldn't like it then its wrong and you need to STOP.

I ended up in this before. I ended up dating him pissing my friend off and then her coming to aplogize. But this is just how it ended for me. Ask him and her what they would think and if its negative do what you want.