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Gin_Ichimaru
Dec 26, 2011, 02:13 PM
Ok, so me and my 'brother' were celebrating Christmas Eve, and then we went round some of his family's house for a big get together. There was his cousin, she had always caught my eye when I saw her, which was very rare, and we had never talked, until then. We ended up getting along quite well and us 3 ended up a bit drunk and out at town at night. We all sat on a bench and then she held my hand and put her head on my shoulder. I had kind of liked her before we even talked and I went with it, I kind of got butterflies as well, we held hands for a long time of the night, then when we left, I have barely spoken to her, I can't seem to stop thinking about her and I really want to just figure out what you think she feels?

I don't know if she's done this kind of thing before, I haven't, to be honest I don't get out much and I really enjoyed it, ha ha, but anyway another thing to know is even before we were mostly drunk, her little sister (before we left the house) teased her, singing 'you're in Love' and she denied it, and then at the end of the night, before I crashed out on the sofa my dad said 'I think she likes you.. ' and now it's been a day and we've text a bit and I mentioned "did you enjoy yesterday" and she said "yeah, the parts I remember".

I just want some thoughts on this, my heads messed up.

Thanks.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 26, 2011, 02:17 PM
So you talk with her, perhaps not of feelings and love but just talk, then ask her out

talaniman
Dec 26, 2011, 05:01 PM
Talk to her, as a friend, and see if she likes spending time with you. Forget what everyone else is saying.

Gin_Ichimaru
Dec 31, 2011, 10:30 PM
Ok, so I'm going to skip the story pretty much and ask this: what can it mean if a girl asks you to come round her house to watch a movie and maybe later have some drink.

She likes me and I guess I like her, I like her a lot, but I'm currently in a dull relationship and no I do not intend to cheat at all, if you could answer with advice, that would be great too, but I'm not sure if I should go to her house and end up regretting it, so yeah, what could she want?

Thanks guys.

circles102
Jan 3, 2012, 02:12 AM
Yes, keep in contact with her, get to know her better, arrange some dates, she obviously likes you, being drunk can really bring out brutal honesty.

Good luck to you bud