Hello I'm 17 and I'm a guy .I think I have a problem.
I think my penis haven't grown enough.It is actually 11,5 cm when erect and 7cm when flaccid and its girth seems to me normal .I also think that I have PE since when I masturbate quickly I ejaculate within 2-3 minutes and when I masturbate slowly I ejaculoate within 9-12 minutes.I'm worried because the I am below the average values for such things and because my friends with who I talk a lot about these things they say that they are bigger than me and that the normal size is 15-16 cm.Am I OK ?What is going on with me?

You need to speak with a Doctor about your concerns.

The size of your penis has no connection with your sexuality. Why do you think it does?

Size means nothing, At 17 most guys know this, you are the size you are, some are larger, some are smaller. Most guys lie about how big they are.

Well because I have heard that size does matter in a relationship which includes sexual intercourse and
I have searched the web and found that most girls-women would like a big penis and I really want to pleasure any of my future girldfriends.Even though I haven't been in a relationship yet Im worried all the time about those things.Im also worried about the whole idea of being in a relationship.I mean OK of course
I would like to be in one though I don't know how to act when being one .(I just mentioned those because
They may be the reasons Im worried).Also I don't think I can go and talk to a doctor about those things,
I mean sex and stuff(Im kind of shy) and my parents are not the right people I can talk to about those things.

Theo 7,

Firstly welcome to this great site!

All you heard about the size of the sexual organ is wrong, myth and misconception, concevied by and large by so-called sex-specialists, who are actually novices, or cheats under the garb of medicos. Still, if you have any such concerns, you can consult a doctor. Remember, the size of your penis has no connection with your sexuality. Adults often lie about the size of their organs. As a girl, I shall have nothing to do with the size, but when the penis swells out of excitement, it excites me. Lols! But, it's a fact!

Well because I have heard that size does matter in a relationship which includes sexual intercourse and
I have searched the web and found that most girls-women would like a big penis and I really want to pleasure any of my future girldfriends.Even though I haven't been in a relationship yet Im worried all the time about those things.Im also worried about the whole idea of being in a relationship.I mean ok ofcourse
I would like to be in one though I dont know how to act when being one .(I just mentioned those because
they may be the reasons why Im worried).Also I dont think I can go and talk to a doctor about those things,
I mean sex and stuff(Im kind of shy) and my parents are not the right people I can talk to about those things.


My opinion? When porno is involved, the larger the better - maybe a larger penis photographs better. I don't know. When I watch a movie and the man is oversized I flinch. As a female accommodating a very large partner can hurt!

As far as how to act in a relationship - I would act natural. Women aren't foreigners. We're just a different sex. Talk to a woman in much the same manner as you'd talk to another man.

And if you meet a special person, you are both ready for a physical relationship, you care about each other (and it's not just random sex) your size will not matter to her.