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idontknow11
Dec 26, 2011, 07:23 AM
It's a long story but I'll try to shorten it. I have a friend (girl) and know her for 7 years. I was never interested in her at the start. Then after some time (I don't remember) she had a boyfriend but then I told her (she had a breakup) that I'd like sth more. What I didn't said is that she liked me (really :) before him) but of as clear as sky she said no they got back together. Then we didn't meet at all for 1 year or more. I found another girl I thought I loved but it was a mistake, during that time she felt again sth more she even said that but I just wasn't interested - wanted to be just friends. My new relationship fu... Up and she found someone new cause she wasn't with her boyfriend for a long time in that point of time - I was happy even if I was alone. He was jealous about me (I was just a friend) and that's why I cut off this friendship. After 6 or 8 months she started to text me and so on. Finally we met and once again she started talking she loves me and blablabla. I told her that if she wants to be friends I really like that idea but don't want her to tell me such things and threat me like her boyfriend or if she wants we can be together. She said that she wants but needs more time and she isn't sure and during this 3 months we are like a couple but there is her last ex who I think she's still angry for so I suppose that she's still feelings for him. And the question is should I stay or should I go ?

JudyKayTee
Dec 26, 2011, 09:47 AM
I can't make heads or tails out of this BUT if you are not happy - go.

If you are happy - stay.

OR you could always talk to "her," tell her your concerns, see what you can work out and/or resolve.

circles102
Jan 3, 2012, 10:14 PM
Honestly if she likes you and you like her, stay and vice versa. Simple as that dude.

Dantes0
Jan 16, 2012, 01:12 AM
Don't let feeling get in the way of a nice girl that likes you.

idontknow11
Jan 19, 2012, 06:52 AM
Now I know the answer :( it doesn't make sense. If there is no commitment just run.