My husband and I have been married for 11 years, the last 4 years he has been cheating on me off and on with different women. He says he has never had sex with these women, just inappropriate texting and showing pics of his penis and the other women showing pics of there vagina and breast. I have read things like "can I lick it" and "lets hook up". I don't believe him. Every time he says he is sorry and that he loves me but yet it can explain why he does it. Trust me there is plenty of sex going on in our bedroom.
Last month we decided to move from NC to VA, the process took about a year. And I honestly thought he was done. Only to find out he was still doing the samething again. By that time he already put in his transfer from his job in NC to VA, now here we are living with my parents and I am hurting all over AGAIN! I have told him to leave, but didn't down I don't mean it. I have made him give me the password to his Facebook account and I check his cell daily. What kind of life is this? Why is it so hard to let go of a man who is clearly no good.

Clearly he is not going to stop this and you know it. The question then becomes: Why are you really willing to put up with it?

You won't leave him and he knows this so you are allowing him to do it... then why should he care to stop? How can you "love" someone that keeps doing this to you?

Bottom line... he's not going to stop, he's already proven that to you, so it all comes down to you now.