Well, see now he's back with his wife, and him and I are supposed to be good friends. He disrespected me so many times on my phone. I have heard them having sex on my phone and on my answering machine. Today his wife wished death on me. I know this situation is not healthy for me because now I'm not eating like I used to, and everyday I feel sick to my stomach. I really want him back.

I find your paragraph abit contradictive...

He is back with his wife! BUT you and him are supposed to be friends, why??
He disrspected you many times... why be friends??

Get rid of him NOW...

An affair with a married man??
And he wants to be friends, yeah right.. all he wants is a sex buddy.

Leave right away from this situation and find someone who respects you, or wait till he has his name on the divorce paper, But then again , once a cheat always a cheat.

Well, see now he's back with his wife, and him and i are supposed to be good friends. He disrespected me so many times on my phone. I have heard them having sex on my phone and on my answering machine. Today his wife wished death on me. I know this situation is not healthy for me because now I'm not eating like I used to, and everyday I feel sick to my stomach. I really want him back.
A man like that is so not worth it... why would you want someone back that is going to leave you messeges of him and his wife having sex? Ugh... it's degrading. You may think you want him back but in the end you would be better off finding someone else that will treat you with respect! This is just my opinion but if I was you I would get rid of him! Hopefully this helped a little! Just remember there is always someone for you out in the world!

You are sick and need help if you want a married man who disrespects you

Sometimes we let others abuse us even when we know we should walk away. I hope you will be able to make the right decision for yourself so you can leave this with high self-esteem and dignity - as remember you are WORTH IT. Thoughts are with you.

Hi Nikki,

I Think It Is Time For You To Turn On Your Heals And Walk Away As I Did In
My Relationship. Even though I Was Not Involved With A Married Person, It Is Very Difficult To Realize That The Other Person Was Just Using You- You Are Better Than That! I Tried In My Relationship To Love The One I Was With Howerver He Always Had Other Interests That I Found Out About- I Decided To Walk Away And Never, Never, Never Look Back!!

As My Mother Always Say's, Dissapointment Is A Blessing- Leave And You Will Find Someone Better

Avoid Married Individuals Because They Just Want A New Taste Of Honey And When They Are Done... you Know The Rest



Good Luck


Jazzie: