I got engaged without knowing about him, now we started talking, I don't feel anything for him, I don't want to marry him.. I can't hurt my parents, but I can't live with him

If your parents cannot accept your realization they aren't concerned with your best interests. They will be disappointed for sure, but better now then later after thousands spent on divorce and marital conflicts and just a bad life until things change. You should cut your losses now, suffer parental disapproval if necessary and get out before it costs too much to correct. It is YOUR FUTURE, not theirs! If it feels this bad now, imagine after marriage? Don't tie yourself to someone you don't love! Best Wishes.

I assume this is an arranged marriage and not in the US?

Am I correct?

If so it is an entirely different situation from marriages in other Countries.

Can you tell us a little bit more?

If your parents cannot accept your realization they aren't concerned with your best interests. They will be disappointed for sure, but better now then later after thousands spent on divorce and marital conflicts and just a bad life til things change. You should cut your losses now, suffer parental disapproval if necessary and get out before it costs to much to correct. It is YOUR FUTURE, not theirs! If it feels this bad now, imagine after marriage? Don't tie yourself to someone you don't love! Best Wishes.


Halfwitt, you realize this is an arranged marriage, right? Do you understand how arranged marriages are set up?