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raindrops_
Dec 22, 2011, 11:15 AM
I'm always wondering if it exists, because I never loved someone. I don't even know what's love other than the Korean dramas I watch. I don't know anything about it, but I'm always sad because, you see, in my country, people propose and you say yes if he has a good job or something. This could be someone you've never met, so I'm kind of sad because I think I'll never meet the person I love even if he's somewhere in this world. Xd

Fr_Chuck
Dec 22, 2011, 11:33 AM
Most people when they talk about "loving" someone they first meet, are confusing love with lust, sexual desire or nice friendship.

Love will combine those, but love is something that grows, nothing that will happen in one week or one month.
It is what there is in 3 years or 6 years after some of the lust has died away and what is there in 30 years when both may have gained weight or lost hair.

A couple in an arranged marriage or marriage for a good job can find love as well as one that marries for other reasons,
It is done from respect, from honor of each other, by communication.

raindrops_
Dec 22, 2011, 11:42 AM
I know, but that's not the way I want to find the person I love. Anyway, thanks.

Fluff_E
Dec 22, 2011, 01:52 PM
True love should never have anything to do with sex. Love is caring and, accepting someone no matter what they do. The abstract things in people not the physical.

AlaiaRae
Dec 22, 2011, 06:11 PM
Love is different for everyone. Love is unexplained. You know it's love when it happens. When you know it is love you won't ask if you love that person you'll be sure. Love for me is amazing but sometimes very hurtful and annoying. When you love someone and they love you they know you so they can annoy you almost as fast before any one else. But in the end love is fun and adventurous. At the end of the day love conquers all.

raindrops_
Dec 24, 2011, 10:20 AM
Thanks, everyone, for answering.

talaniman
Dec 24, 2011, 04:03 PM
How old are you? Just because we haven't loved yet, doesn't mean we never will.