Moved to its own thread and edited/T


He has no kids. And married for 14 years also . A girl likes him too

I'm gay and also in a 12 years relationship, but I work in a the company with a straight married guy that keeps coming to see me. First it started just has friends (know him since 10 years ago), and as time past being closer and closer. Until couple months back, I kind of told him something nice and started from there. He showed me his chest, another day his hairy legs, and last week, his penis 2 times.

My biggest mistake was that, I told a girl from work all about him, even that he showed me his body. She also is an assistant like him. This week I was very upset he spends most o,f the day with her and I just could take it, and told him how much I like him, and that my crush for him as well. I got so mad, and finished our friendship . Told him to get out of my life and to go and spend time with her. He told me that part of the job is to work with her and that was nothing he could do about it.

I started crying and ignoring him every time he comes around. Keeps saying sorry and that he doesn't understand the reason why I get so upset . Their just talking work stuff.

He is very handsome, she is a blonde with big boobs and also she don't have sex with her husband, she told me many times aloud. Come in to work at the same time she does and leaving together too. I ask him about that and response was ( blank ).

What's up with all this??

Your jealousy is unreasonable, seeing as you are in a relationship, and just because you play silly games, and he teases you at work doesn't mean he cares for you more than anyone else, especially a cute blonde also at work.

I can't say what those two are doing, but its none of your business and both of you are acting inappropriately, and unprofessionally in a work setting.

Stay away from the office drama, and take your enthusiasm home to your partner. Not to be harsh but since you and he are committed to others, why pollute the work environment with this drama and cross the lines of good behavior, especially if it makes you jealous, and impulsive, and unreasonably controlling?

A guy who is straight will or may be polite to a gay man but will have no desires what so ever.

Move on, you will not get even every gay man you see and want.

Thank you
That was very helpful

Why do I feel like this e every time I see him at work I can stop looking at him his so handsome
How can I stop like it him

You have to tell yourself that he is married and stop being so selfish about the whole thing. Do you really want to be a home wrecker? By continuing to obsess over him, you are just making things worse for yourself, and if you do ever act on it, worse for him.

Wake up and go find someone who isn't already taken.


EDIT- After looking back, I see you're gay (which you didn't bother to mention here) and you've pretty much asked this same question back in December and got answers for it already.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/gay-guy-straight-married-guy-does-work-620359.html

You're gay... he's not. That makes it even worse. Go find someone who is gay and single and move on. Forget about this guy.

We good friends just feel
Good around him
I ask he answer that friendship was mutual
We both are in a relation I'm with a guy he has a wife

Hello m:

Crush's are fine.. It's ACTION that isn't.

excon

We have done nothing
His a very attractive male gorgeous body
Perfect attitude , been married for more than 10 years
His a cool friend , I'm the only gay friend at work he know
And talks too . Just because I told him he was perfect
MeAns nothing it's truth that he his nice
Told him never to change the way for. No one

He told me just want to be friends that's all
And I'm OK with it. But I in a way had to told him how I feel

I te him that if I ever get him in any trouble to please stop talking to me. We both agree that if it happen we both we talk then.

For many years I had a crush on a guy now his married and happy. We talk at work. But that's all we play around
But never been in a real date
When time pass at work said 30 minutes miss and he missed me too when at home hecalls me weird mmmmm

Please stop rewording this same question and posting it over and over.

You just pretty much said the same thing a short while ago.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workplace-relationships/crush-guy-wife-634846.html

And you have also said the same thing back in December and got many responses to it. Posting it over and over will not get you any better answers.