I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and he was at friends house and we were laughing having a good conversation and then my boyfriend said that his friend liked me so I said okay, and then he said, "Don't worry Bro, She's easy to get." I don't know what he meant. Is it good or bad. I'm only 13 so I have no clue.

If you are sexually active it normally means you are easy to have sex with. If not, one would assume that you are easy to get as a girl friend.

No it is not a good thing

Uhhmm. The only time I've heard that before, was not meant to be good... Well, can I ask how old your Bf is?

Well, first of all it probably means that your boyfriend doesn't respect you. He could have been just joking or doesn't completely know what it means himself, or he could have been putting you down and calling you a slut. What do your instincts tell you?

Whether he was serious, it isn't healthy to allow yourself to be treated that way, especially so blatantly.

Finally, I hate to be "that person" but if you are thirteen and sexually active, I would recommend talking to an adult to get information and help. Sex isn't easy or consequence free. You need to make informed decisions if you are making adult decisions. If your reputation is important to you, you may also want to squash this "easy to get" nonsense. Respect yourself and, ideally, others will do the same.

It means he is telling his friend that you will have sex easily and giving him permission to have sex with you as he has. You are being disrespected by this idiot of a boyfriend, and passed around to his friends to use and play with. NO this is NOT a good thing, and for sure they will tell other guys so they can use you.


age 13, i have regrets because i feel like prostitute and i feel uglyier since ive had sex

Stop having sex, because you are confusing like and love and going about showing it the wrong way. You may think he loves you but he does NOT, sorry.

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5-6 months, I'm 12 he is 13.. We talk o the phone about 7 hours everday and he always calls me, "Mother Licker" I have no clue what that means, and if its good or what..

He is 13 years old, and we haven't even had sex yet. all we have done is hug and kiss, not even held hands

7 hours every day? You need to find and do other things, do your parents know you spend too much time on the phone with him?

Do you talk at night when you are suppose to be sleeping?

But it sounds bad to me, but why not ask him, if you don't like it, tell him so.

Truthfully, the best thing you can do is not even be dating at your age... you are way too young. As already mentioned, this guy is an idiot and he is degrading you. No, it's not good what he's calling you or how he's treating you. The best thing you can do is to dump him and not only wait to find someone that can respect you, but find some self respect as well.

Also, I noticed in one post you said you are 13... now you're saying that you are 12... so?

Kissing is more than holding hands. Let me ask this. How long has he been your "boyfriend" and how long before you started kissing him?

I agree with the others this was not a respectful way to treat you, but given your ages, its possible he didn't really know what it means.

This is why children shouldn't be trying to emulate adult behavior. You are too young to have a boyfriend (do your parents know that you consider him your boyfriend?) you need to mature a bit more before you can try adult behaviors.

I've merged your two threads. After reading the second thread, it is clear that you are engaging in risky behavior for someone your age (whether you are 12 or 13). You need to talk to your parents and see if they approve of this behavior.

Yes my parents know I have a boyfriend, and we have been going out for 5-6 months and we started kissing last week

OK, I think you need to talk to your parents about what he says about you. Also about how much time you spend on the phone with him.

Also at your ages, what do you think having a boyfriend means?

Is this love real? Me and my boyfriend, Trevor, have been dating for 5-6 months now, he is 13 I am 12. We talk on the phone almost all the time. My parents know I have a boyfriend too.. We have hugged, and kissed but never have held hands. Which seems weird to me.. Our first kiss was last week, but I think we are taking things slowly. Every day on the bus we sit by each other, but sometimes he can b a little mean, but not overly mean.like once; he told me to stand up cause I was almost to my stop, I said make me and he actually lifted me up. Ha-ha then once when we were waiting in the isles, he was standing behind me, and he pushed me a little and told me to keep going, I bumped into a kid in front of me then Trevor grabs me around the waist and say hugs me and says sorry. He has given up Weed, and Drugs for me, which is really sweet of him. Like once we were on the bus and he was talking about going to one of his friends house and smoking some weed then he grabs me from behind and tell me, "Not really Baby, I quit weed for you, I'm sorry." I don't know if our love is real or not. He's told me that he has wanted to have sex with me and that. But I just don't know. For Christmas he bought me a 200 dollar present. He is nice and mean sometimes but I still love him. But I don't know if our love is real or what? Could someone please help!

No, following your other questions, he sounds like a hood, calls you names, and most likely at 13 was using drugs, give me a break, with the names he uses, from your other posts he most likely tells his friends he is having sex with you, "the reason for saying you are easy"

He sounds like trash that good decent girls have no business even wasting the time of day on. And I assume they think that at 13 a boyfriend may be sitting on the bus, but ask them about the other posts, the names he uses, and the hug and kiss and I get they will ( or at least should if they are good parents) have other plans for him.

First, I merged your threads again. Please don't keep starting new threads over essentially the same issue. It will help us help you if we have the full background.

I don't know about your feelings for him, but I think its clear his feelings for you aren't real. You are both too young to be in a romantic relationship (Frankly, I think your parents are very wrong in allowing this). By the way, do your parents know he was into drugs?

A 13 yr old who was into drugs in the first place, is bad news. And I don't believe for a minute he has really given it up. The fact that, at 13, he is even talking about sex is an indication that as soon as you let him, he will drop you.

I said it before, you are a child trying to act like an adult before you are ready. I think you are more in love with the idea of being in love than being in love itself. And I think you need to go back to being a child for a few more years before you start trying too hard to be an adult.

But I don't know if our love is real or what? Could someone please help!

Maybe for you it is, probably the first time you have had so strong a feelings, or gotten so much attention. And its real for now for you, but this attractive bad boy is a dope smoking thug, who wants to impress you with lies, disrespectful thug talk, and wants sex.

Two hundred dollar Christmas gift? And you believe that? Quite smoking for you? And you believe that? Love makes you blind sometimes but no reason to be this punks fool. Or his "HO"!!

Have sex, that's exactly what you would be. "mama licker,", "easy"?? Come on that's rap for "HO"! The only help I can give you is don't let that love make you stupid for a nickel slick want to be punk, who thinks you are an easy ho!!

What does it mean when your boyfriend asks you "if you wanna WRESTLE with him".

You still trying to figure out what your horny boyfriend tells you? Have you ever asked him what HE means?

All young horny guys like to wrestle with a girl. Because he is all hormones and horny.

And he can put his hands all over you without looking like a pervert or without you slapping him

He could use a few slaps from your previous posts.

Please don't post the same question ( wrestle issue) on separate posts, you asked it here and are getting answers.

This is the entire issue, you are 12, you are not ready for a dating and boyfriend that will involve sexual undertones, since obvioiusly you don't understand it, and don't understand what he is wanting from you.

One of two things are happening here. Either he's a liar and never smoked weed -only wants you to think he's tough and trying to impress you by "quitting" OR he really did/does do drugs. Either way, that spells trouble.

The things he says to you and about you are disrespectful. Again, that's trouble.

It's one thing to flirt a bit but its trouble that he pushes you into other people.

Sounds like nothing but trouble to me which means there is no love. Girls should only date boys that treat them with respect, dignity and love.

Personally none of this is helping me.

personally none of this is helping me.

If it isn't helping you then you don't want to be helped. You have everyone telling you basically the same thing, that this guy is a loser who you need to run from.

You are not being helped because you don't want to accept and believe the truth. It also appears since you don't know some of the basic maturity to understand some of the sexual and dating natures of what is happening.

Ik but I can't leave him, I just cant. He means the world to mee.. he stands up for me when someone's being mean to me. I understand that he is TROUBLE, Nd all that but at times he makes me feel wonderful, and perfect <3 u all he's bad for me but everyone @school and my friends tell me we are perfect. He is sweet but sometimes he can be a little harsh but he never meeans any of it because after he does something that upsets me or that isn't nice he will always say, 'im sorry, baby, I didn't mean to. I love you and only you, forevr<3 can you forgive me' but he actully has done drugs and I know he said he quit and how you guys think he's lying but truly think he is telling the truth, because he's not afraid about what other people think. He never lies cz he had the guts to be out there and doesn't care what people say or do.

Yes you CAN leave him. You are only 13 you will meet many more guys who will be good for you in your lifetime.

This guy is not. Of course he is nice to you sometimes. He likes having you around so he throws you a few bones to keep you hanging. Of course he tells you he's sorry until the next time. He doesn't love you or he would take more care to consider your feelings.

You need to talk to your parents about what is going on with him. They can hopefully help you deal with your issues of self esteem.

If the help you want involves staying with this punk, you aren't going to get that. Break it off. Throw yourself into something else, school friends etc. your feelings for him will fade and hopefully you will meet someone who truly cares for you.

he stands up for me when someones being mean to me.

Really? After what you've said here it sounds like he is mostly the one being mean to you. The guy doesn't respect you at all and is only nice to you just enough to keep you around and use you for himself.

And to tell us none of us are helping you... as others already said, it's because you simply don't like what we're telling you and you're not willing to accept that we know better. You're not being helped because you don't want to hear this. You want us to tell you how awesome he is and how at age 13, you've already found your soul mate and the jerk that you're going to grow old with in life. Guess what? That's not how it is. He's a loser and you're better off without him.

I agree, his is abusive and you are already getting into that cycle, he is mean but you forgive him and he does it again and again and again.

If he really cared for you, he would not be mean