View Full Version : I'm a horrible person. I'm the mistress. But I love him
berthaa
Dec 16, 2011, 03:26 PM
I'm in love with a guy who already has a girl friend.
It gets worse.
He cheated on his girlfriend with me.
I tried to ignore the fact that he had a girlfriend.
But then I fell even more in love with him.
I stopped the whole thing for half a year.
But I went back to him recently.
He's dating a new girl now.
I want to end this.
But I'm too scared to. Because I still love him.
vannabannabear
Dec 18, 2011, 04:55 PM
He doesn't Love you, because if he did he would end it with the other girl..
But, if he does end it with the other girl, to be with you, he might cheat on you..
End it and don't look back.
monsterniki
Dec 29, 2011, 09:49 AM
Don't you think that possibly he is just playing with you. You love him but if he loved you he would have dated you after the first girl instead of finding another. He is just a cheater and really isn't looking for anything seriuos at the moment because if he was he would have never cheated with any girl... he is just dragging you along. Move on
aliseaodo
Dec 29, 2011, 11:53 AM
Agreeing with everyone - if he was sincerely interested in dating you - not just having you on the side - don't you think he would have come to you when he stopped dating the first girl, instead of going for someone else (still not you) - sounds harsh, but it's blatantly obvious. Sorry hon - move on...
*by the way - I wouldn't call you horrible, just confused and blinded. Him, however, I would call horrible.*
Fr_Chuck
Dec 29, 2011, 12:03 PM
You are what is called a mistress, so I would hope he is at least paying your rent or making it worth you time with money and gifts, Since it is not love he is sharing it is sex.
Also please be using protection, since you know he is having sex with that girl for sure and most likely a few others he is cheating with also.