View Full Version : How do you find out who a guy likes if you can't talk to him in person
ipsyupsy
Dec 12, 2011, 07:02 PM
So I have been talking to this guy over the internet, he goes to the same school as me and everyday I see him. There is nothing stopping me from talking to him besides my feelings for him. I really like this guy, he doesn't know how I feel for him. But I want to find out who he likes. But he refuses to tell anyone, so I do the same to him, I don't tell him who I like. Its killing me to find out who he likes.
Fr_Chuck
Dec 12, 2011, 07:14 PM
Being rude and not talking to him, ( unless this is grade school and Jr high) is not how friends are made. You don't find out first if he likes you, you go and talk to him, Then after he gets to know you, he may like you.
You are trying to start in the middle, How can he know he likes you, if you have not talked.
talaniman
Dec 12, 2011, 11:08 PM
Talk of other things and see if you can both stop being afraid because of your feelings.
Then maybe you can share those feeling with each other.
SweetChick10101
Dec 13, 2011, 10:32 PM
I totally understand why it's easier for you to just talk online. But that leaves sooo much uncertainty for the both of you. It's such a bad form of communication! If you really feel like he has feelings for you, take the risk and it will be so worth it. At least try to say hi to him! I know that is totally awkward, and hard to get the courage to do, but you honestly will never know unless you try.