Me and my ex was together for 7 years, we split because of me. I lost it with her son who was 15 going on 25 you know what I mean? I didn't hit him or anything, but I did go for him. I was in a wheel chair for about a year after a motorbike crash. He didn't live with us because he was in care, but I was a dad to him and his two brothers and had all 3 of them. Lots of bad times with the kids, but I loved them and tried my best.

When we split up she started seeing someone after a month and so did I, didn't talk for a year, then we stared talking. We both had been single for about 2 years . Me because I don't want anyone but her, and from what she tells me because of the man she was seeing after we split. I have tried to get her out of my head, but she keeps calling me, yes we have slept with each other, but not in the last 6 months to a year.

Anyway she keeps calling me, and she still wants me in her life, but she says as a friend, but if we go out, it is like we are back together. She needs help. She could always talk to me about anything. She does have a lot of problems, and she has always been a bit **** because of her past. I just need to know if she still loves me, or is she just playing me. Sorry about the spelling!

You let her do as she pleases and she takes full advantage of her "friendship", so yeah, I guess you could say she loves you as long as you do what she wants, and NO, she isn't playing you, YOU are letting her play YOU. BIG difference.

What kind of help does she need that her MAN can't help her with? MONEY?

She ant got a man anymore . Yes she do,es need help with money but only 20 pounds here and there. She is messed up before me her boyfriend beat her and after me . She do,es love me well that's what she tell,s me but when we are with each other it is like we are together she is messed up in the head because off her passed but all her friends and famliy tell me she miss,s me and when I do go and see her she is happy that I'm there . I thought she was playing but it is hard to tell sometimes we don't see each other for 2-4 mouths but when she call,s me yes I do go running .we met the other night in her locol pub and some of them did say that it is like us two are togeter and some of them though that I worked away from home because she do,es get chated up in the pub but always says no .I just want to no what,s going on . Cheers x

You really need to be confronting her and finding out what you want to know.

I get you like each other in your lives but she seems to know how to keep you confused and waiting, BUT I see this as its YOU who cannot let go, and maybe that's what the problem is.

For sure she likes the way things are NOW, she is free to do whatever, and still has you when she needs you. You sir, are stuck on a one way street, that works great for her, but not for you.

It doesn't matter what her intentions are, ALL that matters is what YOU do about YOURSELF!


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