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wifey27
Dec 7, 2011, 12:32 PM
My husband hides in the boiler room and acts like he is checking the heat, but I do catch him from time
To time looking suspicious. I can see his hand moving and he jumps when he will hear me but the boiler
Is blocking my view of his penis area. He walks out with nothing in his hand like tissues. I do notice his
Penis looks a little large in his underwear. He was unable to finish I guess. He denies that he masturbates
Regularly. I did not believe this so I looked around in boiler room really good for evidence and sure enough
Found a sperm covered wall. Can someone confirm if sperm dries in a yellowish color? How can I show him the
Damage without crossing the line?

Wondergirl
Dec 7, 2011, 12:39 PM
Why does he have to masturbate in the boiler room? It's warmer there?

Aurora_Bell
Dec 7, 2011, 12:49 PM
Masturbation is a totally normal, healthy expression, are concerned about the amount, or that fact that he is doing it in there?

wifey27
Dec 7, 2011, 03:11 PM
I guess boiler room is in basement and safe place out of the way to get caught.

tkrussell
Dec 7, 2011, 03:22 PM
Let him know it is OK, and your sex life will sky rocket, so to speak.

Wondergirl
Dec 7, 2011, 03:32 PM
I guess boiler room is in basement and safe place out of the way to get caught.
To get caught? It's a forbidden activity?

Cat1864
Dec 7, 2011, 03:34 PM
Do you have a problem with him masturbating or does he have an issue with people (specifically you) knowing he masturbates?

Why are you trying to catch him? Is it because of a perception that he is lying to you?

Some men are very private about masturbation. It can because of their up-bringing or events from their past. Trying to force the issue into the 'light' may be causing him to react by hiding and lying. If you back off and let him know it okay to talk about his private needs when he is ready, he may stop the behavior that is worrying you.

On the other hand, he may be getting something out of 'being caught'. Have you discussed fetishes and what some people term kinks? Does he feel comfortable talking about his sexual needs and desires with you?

Trying to figure out what is ejaculate and what isn't probably isn't going to help. Confronting him seems to making matters worse. Perhaps sitting down and calmly discussing the matter with him and letting him know you are concerned about his actions might help you learn what is going on in his mind.

J2m5s8
Dec 8, 2011, 08:52 PM
Gross. You couldn't clean that wall good enough for me. Warn the potential buyers before ever selling that house.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 8, 2011, 08:57 PM
First why are you trying to catch him and why are you caring if he does. Why can he not just lay in the bed and do it without you caring ?

JudyKayTee
Dec 9, 2011, 08:03 AM
Gross. You couldn't clean that wall good enough for me. Warn the potential buyers before ever selling that house.


Warn the buyers of what? That there once was sperm on the wall?

batmann123
Dec 27, 2011, 02:13 AM
"Talking to each one is the best methods to resolve problems specially like this one."