View Full Version : I just can't seem to get over a one-sided love...
summerscribbles
Dec 6, 2011, 06:54 PM
I've been in a one-sided love with one of my best friends and just recently confessed my feelings knowing that he liked one of my other close friends. I did this in hopes of closure with myself but it seems that its just getting worse. I do still want to be friends with him because we were and are really close but I just can't handle this situation. I like him and he likes one of my close friends... Does anyone have some good advice? I'd really appreciate it!
geminichick
Dec 7, 2011, 09:01 AM
Honestly, you can't really do anything about the way he feels about your close friend. Just try to move on. I know you feel hurt. Some other guy will come along that feels the same way about you as you do him. It hurts but that's kind of a part of life. Yesterday was yesterday and today brings better surprises.
talaniman
Dec 7, 2011, 01:24 PM
You should get more friends and activities you enjoy. That will give you a better perspective on the friendship.
How old are you both?
SweetChick10101
Dec 13, 2011, 10:35 PM
Wow, that is a tough situation to be in. I know it hurts so much when the guy you like prefers your friend, but it all comes dow to there are plenty of fish in the sea. You may think it's the end of the world if this one guy doesn't like you, but that doesn't mean there aren't people who like you, now that you know he likes your friend it would be harder to change that and try to make him like you than to just move on, and someone's feelings would definitely be hurt, be it you, him, or your friend. Who knows, if it's destiny, maybe he'll realize that he's liked you the whole time ;) It really does happen...