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cazazz
Dec 6, 2011, 06:43 PM
My brothers death well he was my best friend and every thing reminds me of him and I love him so much

JudyKayTee
Dec 7, 2011, 06:19 AM
How long has he been gone? Have you tried a bereavement group?

truthway
Dec 16, 2011, 05:09 AM
Pray for him and ask for him mercy and ask god that you meet him in paradice and continue your life and do good deeds may they help you and your brothers and this death in not in your hand and you don't have solution we all going to death so your are in life you have to do what you have to do in your life cause your brothers are death now may you meet them in pradice inshallah .

JudyKayTee
Dec 16, 2011, 07:57 AM
Please keep in mind that not everyone believes in your particular God - this provides no comfort to those who don't.

joypulv
Dec 27, 2011, 07:43 AM
Don't try to get over it. Let him be part of you. Talk to him, even if you don't believe in an afterlife. Do things for him, in his memory. Things he liked. Make a little shrine, a shelf, a spot on a table, with a few mementos to meditate on. Plant a tree or shrub somewhere and keep it watered and pruned and weeded. Get a dog or cat and name it after him with a little variation.

If you didn't grieve when he died, grieve now. Let it out, cry, walk, think, talk. If you are in the US too many of us don't grieve. Bodies are whisked away, funerals are hushed or too much into 'celebrating their life.' We think we have to get over it.