serenemeadow
Dec 6, 2011, 07:59 AM
Let me make this as short as possible without skipping over the important details.
So I'm freshman in college right now and in one of my classes there is a girl I like. I've consciously made an effort to get closer to her by sitting next to her and just making casual conversation. There has been a bit of some teasing from me but she doesn't seem to reciprocate. So I stopped.
Sometimes I would try to walk with her after class ends but she seems reluctant. She is usually easy to talk to in class but outside not as much. Our 'goodbyes' outside of class are as really abrupt. Just a simple "bye" then walk away. Not even any eye contact. Now I'll admit my side of the goodbye is like this because I'm too nervous and shy that I end up choking and giving an awkward "bye" and sideward glance. But from her side I think it's because she is genuinely uninterested.
This has been going on for the past three months and at this point I would say that I still like her but for her it's strictly platonic. Now I'm planning on confessing.
Our term ends soon and that means we will probably never see each other again as we are from different departments. Before it ends I'm thinking of actually getting her alone after class to have a short. During that talk I mention how I've liked her for quite a while since the first time we talked. I let her know that I don't expect an answer and that I just had to tell her to get it off my chest. Knowing well in mind that she will mostly likely be speechless, I, as gracefully as possible, will end the conversation and part ways.
Now I'd like to know if there's anything wrong with going ahead with the confession. We aren't exactly friends, so I wouldn't be losing one if we stopped talking forever. Besides, even if I don't confess, we probably wouldn't talk ever again except for a random "Hi" now and then.
Any thoughts guys?
So I'm freshman in college right now and in one of my classes there is a girl I like. I've consciously made an effort to get closer to her by sitting next to her and just making casual conversation. There has been a bit of some teasing from me but she doesn't seem to reciprocate. So I stopped.
Sometimes I would try to walk with her after class ends but she seems reluctant. She is usually easy to talk to in class but outside not as much. Our 'goodbyes' outside of class are as really abrupt. Just a simple "bye" then walk away. Not even any eye contact. Now I'll admit my side of the goodbye is like this because I'm too nervous and shy that I end up choking and giving an awkward "bye" and sideward glance. But from her side I think it's because she is genuinely uninterested.
This has been going on for the past three months and at this point I would say that I still like her but for her it's strictly platonic. Now I'm planning on confessing.
Our term ends soon and that means we will probably never see each other again as we are from different departments. Before it ends I'm thinking of actually getting her alone after class to have a short. During that talk I mention how I've liked her for quite a while since the first time we talked. I let her know that I don't expect an answer and that I just had to tell her to get it off my chest. Knowing well in mind that she will mostly likely be speechless, I, as gracefully as possible, will end the conversation and part ways.
Now I'd like to know if there's anything wrong with going ahead with the confession. We aren't exactly friends, so I wouldn't be losing one if we stopped talking forever. Besides, even if I don't confess, we probably wouldn't talk ever again except for a random "Hi" now and then.
Any thoughts guys?