dawnfang
Dec 2, 2011, 07:18 PM
This is a girl that has been in high school classes with me the past two years and now we are in college classes together. We have had a few conversations in high school and talked a little bit more in college, just about classes though, we are not friends my any stretch of the imagination, just acquaintances. I have really liked her from the moment I first saw her, she is beautiful,strong,smart and has a laid back personality.
I'm really shy though and always get really nervous talking to her and in high school since she was on the weightlifting team she was always talking to the jocks, that are tall and muscular and me being 5'5 and not muscular. In the college classes, which are night classes at a high school, we are in two of the same classes together and one day after class I have wanted to go up to her and say something like her name, I think that you are beautiful and smart and I was wondering if maybe you would want to go out sometime.
Unfortunately five months have passed and I still have not been able to tell her. We basically only have I class left this Wednesday because the other two days are final exams and you leave when you are done. I know that when I'm walking next to her after class all I have to do is say her name and get her attention and then I will be forced to say the rest, but I can't bring myself to even do that I get so nervous.
I know that I have nothing to lose, that she will just say no or that she already has a boyfriend and that after this I will probably never see her again, so it's not like I have to worry about her thinking I'm a weirdo or anything. Like said above I'm really shy and have never had a girlfriend or anything and I know that comments will say that just telling her how I feel like this is too strong and I should try to be friends with her, but I have never had a lot of friends and have not been friends with a girl since 5th grade. I also know people will say that I barely know her and it is probably just lust but there have been plenty of girls that are good looking to me but I do not feel attracted to them in a emotional sense, there just seems to be something different about this girl, I don't know why. I'm basically just looking for comments on the situation, sorry if I wrote so much I just had to vent how I feel.
I'm really shy though and always get really nervous talking to her and in high school since she was on the weightlifting team she was always talking to the jocks, that are tall and muscular and me being 5'5 and not muscular. In the college classes, which are night classes at a high school, we are in two of the same classes together and one day after class I have wanted to go up to her and say something like her name, I think that you are beautiful and smart and I was wondering if maybe you would want to go out sometime.
Unfortunately five months have passed and I still have not been able to tell her. We basically only have I class left this Wednesday because the other two days are final exams and you leave when you are done. I know that when I'm walking next to her after class all I have to do is say her name and get her attention and then I will be forced to say the rest, but I can't bring myself to even do that I get so nervous.
I know that I have nothing to lose, that she will just say no or that she already has a boyfriend and that after this I will probably never see her again, so it's not like I have to worry about her thinking I'm a weirdo or anything. Like said above I'm really shy and have never had a girlfriend or anything and I know that comments will say that just telling her how I feel like this is too strong and I should try to be friends with her, but I have never had a lot of friends and have not been friends with a girl since 5th grade. I also know people will say that I barely know her and it is probably just lust but there have been plenty of girls that are good looking to me but I do not feel attracted to them in a emotional sense, there just seems to be something different about this girl, I don't know why. I'm basically just looking for comments on the situation, sorry if I wrote so much I just had to vent how I feel.