My best friend and I are really close she lives right across the road from me,we have this other friend that is jealous of us and she wants to be best friends with my best friend, but lately me and her have become quiet close and we had a sleep over on the weekend we did our normal things like go on Facebook and she used my laptop to go on Facebook, a few days later I discover that she had forgotten to log out and shut down my laptop, as I went to log out of her account it was open on her messages where she left it, I saw my name on one of the messages to my best friend, I clicked it and they both were talking behind my back, taking the mic and just *****ing, I looked at the date and realised, that it was from a few months ago, but then I saw my friend saying to my best friend she treats you like a book and she's not really a good best friend, so I got quiet upset that my friend would say that to her because I trusted her, and because my best friend lives right across the road from me I decided to go and ask her about it, but as I was reading some of the messages I lost some trust in my best friend and in my friend,so instead of saying to my best friend that our friend left her account open and I saw what you guys said about me, I said someone told me that you guys talk about me and they told me what you said, to see if she would lie to me or to tell me the truth, she did tell me the truth and I had gained some trust back, and she also said ill ask our friend about it, but a few hours later when I was home, I got a text saying I'm not silly and quiet upset you went through friends account and I wonder if I can trust you, and I told her the whole story of what happened she replied saying we are both in the wrong, the next morning I went over because they normal take me to school, when I got there I went into my best friends room and tried to talk to her about it, but she ignored me the whole time, we got to school and everybody was acting weird towards me, then people started asking me my side of the story on what happened, I kind of figured that she must of told people about what happened, if they were asking for my side so I told them they agreed saying I would have done the same thing if I saw my name,then one of my friends came and asked me about it I got like a couple of sentence in and he walked of saying what ever! Then saw a big group of my friends crowding around him and knowing him he likes fights and starting things, then a few minutes later he came up to me saying you're a good story teller, my friends started to ignore me it was the end of the day though, I got home and went on Facebook all these statuses about me, saying you wouldn't of done that to your "best friend", my best friend was over our friends house that afternoon, and I was with my best friend sister, witch I am also good friends with, later on after her sister had gone home and my best friend came back from our friends house, her sister came back over saying that my best friend was crying and screaming and said that they can't take me to school in the morning tomorrow, I said okay and walked back into my room, my mum was quiet concerned asked me what was going on and of course I told her because I was very upset two, my mum decided to text my best friends mum to find out why my best friend came home screaming and crying, apparently I made up a story making my best friend seem nasty, when I just told like 4 people the story of what happened and she did the same thing, but I think that one of my friends maybe the boy since he likes causing issues made up a story, saying well.. I have no idea, I feel like she hates me and I get if she's mad at me for lying but she won't even listen properly to my side of the story, I don't know what to do she means the world to me and I don't won't to fight and I don't won't everybody to hate me and also since graduation is coming up soon form primary school and we both are going to the same high school I won't everything to be over, needing some advice on what to do..

It's so hard when you find out your friends are talking behind your back, it hurts a lot. The sad part is that this is how all young teenage girls act, they can be so sneaky and say mean things, but I think the best thing for you to do is not to pay attention to what people say on Facebook. Only cowards would write and say things about you on a website and not to your face. This fight seems to be blown way out of proportion, so maybe you should just try to make friends again, and if she doesn't accept, then all the better for you. You don't need a friend who will talk smack about you with other girls.