I love him but he does not love me and no one else does love me but why:confused: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

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i love him but he does not love me and no one else does love me but why:confused: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
Hello there... I think that's just the way you think.
I've been there and truth love... well, is not true love until it's mutual. If he doesn't love you, he's not for you, even though it hurts. I've been there... ready to spill my guts confessing all my love to this one man I thought was "the one". I was so in love, and thought life was unfair to me, because I loved him so much and he didn't show the slightest affection towards me. We dated and everything... but nothing. And prayed for him to love me... until I realized that love is not love until it's mutual, otherwise, it's just hormones making you crazy.
I'd like to tell you that I cried a lot when he left town... then when I finally got over him, thought "i don't need nobody to be happy, i'll just be happy on my own"... this wonderful man came along and pretty much raised me to higher level. Now he's my husband and we're going on 3 years now. So... hold on there, the right one will come along. Just be patient!

First: You say you love somebody but they do not love you. Well maybe it is not really true love and you need to let go of this.

Second: You need to stop throwing yourself into a relationship because you are afraid to be alone. Just because you may be single, just because you might not have a partner right now in your life does not mean no body loves you.

Third: Love takes time and patience. If you can not just live your life for yourself. Be happy for yourself. Do things for yourself, and my favorite is go out and volunteer. Go to community meetings, go to church (If you belong to any, it is a good place to meet people). Do not be in a hurry to find somebody to love you. If it is forced then it will never work out. You need to take time and relax.

Hope this helps you and Remember Patience is very important. Oh, and another thing. You need to remember that many people will go through several relationships before they find that somebody special, somebody might end up not having anybody until they are older which is nothing wrong with that.

By the way people who get together when they are younger and get married younger have a high divorce rate. People who are older and marry at an older age actually have a lower divorce rate. That is just something to think about.

I do not know how old you are and I know Janine would have probably wanted me to wait for you to let us know and give us more info but I think this advice is for anybody who fels they need to have somebody by their side when in fact it is not needed at all, and if you push for it you could end up hurt even more.

Joe

Unrequited love is painful. Often when we first encounter it, we exaggerate and feel like nobody loves us when that really isn't the truth. It is fortunately something you will eventually get over. Mine was this really cute guy named Scott and he was my brother's best friend.