In December my boyfriend and I split up. I have just been waiting for the right guy to come along. I've been told by guy friends that I'm "cute" and "beautiful". I'm confused though. All men do is stare at me. They don't ever ask me out on a date or come up and talk to me. I don't really understand. Should I go up and talk to them or ask them why they're staring at me or what should I do. I really want to be in a relationship with a really great guy. Believe me when I say I'm confused about me. Please help!

If you like someone, there's no reason why you shouldn't go and start a conversation yourself. And make sure you don't rush yourself into a relationship just to prove to yourself you're 'cute'.

X Dani

They are just as confused about themselves as you are, and the best thing is get to know them with some friendly talk, and NEVER rush into a relationhip, just to have one.

How old are you, and how long was your last relationship?

I am 36 years old. The relationship was short. We were only together for just a little over 3 months.

Just me, but I think with females, its best to be open and friendly but not to friendly and let them chase you a bit. Plus getting to know people and be comfortable and safe in a social setting, or activity is best.

Relax, and have fun. Seems a confident mature guy would do more than stare.

Thank you! That was helpful. In my question I did make a typing error though. I meant to say I was confused about "men". Instead I said I was confused about "me". Thanks again. Your advice was helpful.