View Full Version : I still like my ex
emjen2
Nov 25, 2011, 07:24 AM
I still really like my ex boyfriend! He was my first love. But he started changing and I didn't like it! He started ignoring my texts phone calls ignore me in the hallways, and he never wanted to hang out! So I told him how I felt, and he just kept on saying OK and OK, then I said I don't think this is working out, and he said OK again! It's been a week sense we broke up and he all ready has a girlfriend :( what should I do, how should I get over him?
odinn7
Nov 25, 2011, 07:37 AM
Well, it sounds like he already had ideas of being with someone else and that's why he was acting that way. What should you do? You should move on and forget about him. The best way to do this is to keep yourself occupied. Do things with friends and family and stop thinking about the guy. Clearly he wasn't as interested in you as you were in him. You don't deserve someone like that.
Being your first love makes it seem very important to you and also makes it seem like you will never survive without him. We've all been through it. You will survive, you will be OK. Some day you will find someone that will treat you right and who will make you feel alive all over again. Just give it time and you'll be OK.
emjen2
Nov 25, 2011, 09:54 AM
So I'm 12 and my family doesn't like me having boyfriends, my mom says "YOU can't HAVE A BOYFRIEND UNTIL YOUR MARRIE" I've had some and went behind her back and I don't like doing that but I like this guy soooooo much and I don't know if I should just forget him and litsen to my mom or go behind her back>?
Wondergirl
Nov 25, 2011, 10:00 AM
If you want to totally mess up your teen years and destroy the trust your mom has in you, you will do that by sneaking around behind her back.
Do well in school and make her proud of you. Help around the house and wear a smile on your face. During the next years and by the time you will be allowed to go out on real dates, you will be soooooooooo glad you used self control and acted maturely instead of like a brat.
emjen2
Nov 26, 2011, 01:14 PM
I like my best friend ex! What should I do?
Kokuathu
Nov 26, 2011, 01:30 PM
Talk to your friend on your feelings if you believe the relationship is worth it. If not, go find someone else -- there are many fish in the sea.
emjen2
Nov 26, 2011, 02:01 PM
I'm to afaid to ask out this guy I have a HUGE crush on! What should I do?!
Wondergirl
Nov 26, 2011, 02:16 PM
How old are the two of you? Have either of you ever dated before this? How long have you known each other?
(I know, I know -- I'm bundle of questions, but if you answer them, it will help me help you.)
emjen2
Nov 26, 2011, 03:30 PM
We both are 12 and yes we both have dated before and about 2 years
Wondergirl
Nov 26, 2011, 03:46 PM
What is "dating" at your age? He can't drive you anywhere. What do you do on a date?
emjen2
Nov 26, 2011, 05:56 PM
We go to the movies and stuff
Wondergirl
Nov 26, 2011, 06:32 PM
How do you get to the movies? What's "and stuff"?
ScottGem
Nov 26, 2011, 08:04 PM
Your mom probably said that because she caught you sneaking around. You are too young to be dating. And you're are bad by sneaking around behind your parent's backs.
Many of your posts have been merged into one. And it presents a contradictory picture. This site is a serious Q&A site, not a playground for children. So if you are serious we will try to help. But if you are just playing around other action will be taken.