Hey everyone!

I need some advice on some thoughts I got

Short pre history: Asked a girl 1 and a half years ago about a date over text. If she was interested (not the intention, but it happen because she thought our next meeting was a date, which it wasn't but would ask her when I meet her about a date.) She was not and we remained friends and she is my best friend now.

I have changed a lot and only to the better in all areas. I'm still in love in her and we are closer than ever. I'm not good at seeing the signs/hints if girls makes them... but think there are some and this is what I need advice on.

When we are together she smiles almost all the time, we see each other when there we got the time (at least once a week... sometimes 2). Talk almost every single day, and we can talk about everything and we also do not need to do something special when together. Times just fly by. We enjoy each other company like that and I know she also thinks that (sent me a quote about only true friends can make nothing together).

When she needs help with something personal it's me she counting on. I have also felt like there have been moments at her place she wanted to kiss. The way she acted when we were alone at the couch/bed.
But I just don't know since she said no a year, and a half ago.

Does what I described give any clue for someone? And should I take another chance, wait a while and see or just forget it?

A confused 23 old guy...

Just my opinion, and I could be wrong, but all I see is just friends, and the main problem is you have gotten so attached that maybe you see more than that.

I can understand seeing someone regularly and becoming enamored since you have had interest from the beginning, and of course its very easy to mistake friendship attention for an interest in more.

Talk to your friend, and see if she too has developed that kind of interests, and go from there. Knowing the truth is a lot better than hoping and wishing, even if she doesn't feel as you do.

Go for it ! Don't do this to yourself, you have the right to know what's going on , just be honest and talk to her, ask her, let her know what you are thinking.

Tell Her! Coming from a girl... I felt the same way about a guy friend! I told him how I felt and he said he felt the same way. We aren't together now but we still remain friends. Don't not do it, and regret it for the rest of your life. You don't want to watch her live her life and you getting held back from yours not knowing how she feels.


Do it! (: