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little_princess
Feb 9, 2007, 03:25 AM
I've been dating someone for around 2 months now, and although things were great at the beginning, things have started turning sour and I really can't understand why!!

He does everything for me, always compliments me and seems to be perfect boyfriend material. The only thing is, when I'm with him lately I don't want him kissing/hugging me and I keep telling him to get off me. I have also noticed that I turn rather nasty when I'm around him!!

To make matters worse, when I'm not with him all I want to do is call him! We arrange to meet up and I get all excited, then when I see him I want to go home within 5 minutes =[

It's really confusing me, and I have tried giving it time to see if my feelings change but they SEEM to be getting worse!!

I know he's got plans for valentines day, but I'm not sure if I should break it off before then to save him the hassle and also not give him the wrong impression!

SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!

Bluerose
Feb 9, 2007, 07:11 AM
You can't lead him on, you must be honest. If you wait until after valentines day to break it off, he will be devastated. It will hurt anyway but the easiest way to give someone bad new is to get it straight out. They are going to have to deal with it anyway, let it be sooner rather than later.

talaniman
Feb 9, 2007, 07:12 AM
I think you need some you time to think things over and get unconfused. You are still finding yourself, so make that your priority not a relationship. You should be having fun, not tripping on your own feelings. Back off and do things you enjoy without him. A big red flag goes up reading about you don't want to break up because he has Valentines day plans. Sorry that come across as sort of lame as far as excuses go, and sends a bad message. Be honest now and tell him how you feel and save him his dignity.