Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months. But sadly due to some legal stuff he was forced to move back to Florida (which is where he moved from) to take classes. When he finishes them he says he's moving back. And its only about a month away from him coming back, but he's been gone for 3 months.

We both decided we would do a long distance relationship because we do want to be with each other, and we knew we could wait until we see each other again. But since I live in Illinois, it's difficult to communicate with him. He doesn't have a cell phone so he uses his moms, he's always out with his new friends at parties and drinking and doing drugs even though he's not supposed to because he gets drug tested and if he fails he can't come home, and we talk over Facebook SOMETIMES. But sometimes he'll be online and not even bother to talk to me.

I don't know if I'm just being paranoid about losing him, but I'm so sad all the time because he never talks to me. Hes such a sweetheart, but I'm so confused. What do I do?

What are his good points? Everything I see here is a negative.

Either you wait, or you don't. Distance relationships, are hard for any one, so I guess you have to decide if he is worth what you are going through, or NOT!

His positive points: he's a very positive person. He's always smiling and happy when he talks to me. He's not afraid to be crazy and weird around me. We have the kind of relationship where we can call each other names and not mean it and we don't get offended because we know we are just joking around. He's the first person I believe when he says he loves me.