shreshtha20
Nov 20, 2011, 03:45 AM
Assalamalaikum,
I'm a Hindu girl in love with a Muslim guy since the past one year. We would love to get married right this instant but are bound by many responsibilities. I'm planning to revert to Islam as soon as I can get to know everything about it. We are in a very serious dilemma since the beginning of our relationship. We love each other immensely due to which at times we do get intimate over the phone. We did actually try being just friends but unfortunately that's just not possible for either of us. This causes a lot of stress for him and he starts feeling guilty about our relationship as whole. He says the only solution to this problem is if we end everything once and for all as he just cannot control himself when he speaks to me.
Is this the only solution to our problem ? I mean is there no other way that we can work this out without having to separate from each other ? How can I reduce his guilt ? We really love each other a lot. Please provide us with a solution.
I'm a Hindu girl in love with a Muslim guy since the past one year. We would love to get married right this instant but are bound by many responsibilities. I'm planning to revert to Islam as soon as I can get to know everything about it. We are in a very serious dilemma since the beginning of our relationship. We love each other immensely due to which at times we do get intimate over the phone. We did actually try being just friends but unfortunately that's just not possible for either of us. This causes a lot of stress for him and he starts feeling guilty about our relationship as whole. He says the only solution to this problem is if we end everything once and for all as he just cannot control himself when he speaks to me.
Is this the only solution to our problem ? I mean is there no other way that we can work this out without having to separate from each other ? How can I reduce his guilt ? We really love each other a lot. Please provide us with a solution.