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rebel-2
Feb 8, 2007, 05:39 PM
OK yeah I'm not really crazyily in love with girls or anthing but I have a small isue when I talk to them .I can't keep I eye contact, I'm not trying to be disrespectfull by looking at the ground or looking out a window when they talk, but it just happends.

And I can tell that it bothers the other person. For instance I wonder what they think, you know?

OK so what can I do to prevent this?
And... to the girls, what would you think if I kept looking away instead of keeping eye contact. ( wow I just had a dejavu' feeling, like I did this b4)
Anyway
-thanks

Nonagon
Feb 8, 2007, 05:48 PM
Being nervous around the oppisite sex is natural, espicially if you just hit puberty. After a while though you get more confident and can look at them when you talk. Hope this helps.

rebel-2
Feb 8, 2007, 06:17 PM
Nonono I have no problem talking, I got many friends of the opposite sex, its just when I meet someone new, I don't know them so I start looking away (not because I like them, it just happends)

filakia
Feb 8, 2007, 11:57 PM
ok yeah im not really crazyily in love with girls or anthing but i have a small isue when i talk to them .I can't keep i eye contact, im not trying to be disrespectfull by looking at the ground or looking out a window when they talk, but it just happends.

And i can tell that it bothers the other person. For instance i wonder what they think, u know?

ok so what can i do to prevent this?
and.....to the girls, what would you think if i kept looking away instead of keeping eye contact. ( wow i just had a dejavu' feelin, like i did dis b4)
neway
-thanks
Looking into someone's eyes means you are confident... absolutely nothing wrong with that.