My wife told me that she is starting to resent me. She had recently started an overnight job and she complains that she doesn't get any sleep. Now we have 4 kids in our home and the living room isn't really the best place to go to sleep. Also I try to keep the house as clean as possible but nothing is good enough for her we have been fighting a lot lately and she has been telling me that I don't listen to her and that she wants a divorce. I try to nuetralize the fighting because the last time we fought we ended in a fist fight. What do I do to make her happy.

You and your wife had a fist fight? You hit her? For that matter, she hit you?

Why is she sleeping in the livingroom?

I think there is more to her unhappiness than you are saying here. What is this really about?