Hey, So Friday night, I decided to go out drinking with a few mates, I met this really nice attractive girl there and we ended up going back to mine. She stayed the night and we did sleep togeather.

The next morning it still seemed like she was happy to be there and wasn't a drunken mistake. I thought about her all day and then that evening I get a message from her saying that it shouldn't have happened and that she has a boyfriend. I asked her if she actually liked me or if it was just a drunk thing and she said she does like me. She also said it was a one off and she doesn't usually do that sort of thing. She still wants to be friends though and she knows how I feel about her, I really like her and didn't want it to end up being just a one night stand. I'm really confused that she said she likes me and was happy being with me that night/morning but apparently she's staying with her boyfriend.

Ignoring the fact that what she did was immoral to most anyway, what you need to remember is that she did it to him, what's to stop her cheating on you?

X Dani

She like you, likes her boyfriend, she cheated on him, she will cheat on you.

Geez guy, you really think there is more than just drunken lust involved here? Don't be so naïve.

What do you expect a lying, drunk cheater to say??

Wait for the "we have been dating for so long I can't get myself to leave him" and "if I wasn't with my boyfriend I would be with you", too. Because it's what people say when they don't want to make you feel bad.

If she really liked you, she wouldn't be with her boyfriend period.

It is what it is... a one night stand. End of story.

Blah, blah, blah... what you have just wrote has been the same old story of a one night stand with a girl with a boyfriend. Respect the relationship, thank her for the sex, and move on. You had your enjoyment, so did she, now she and you can both part away and continue your lives before you met each other a couple days ago.