I have been together with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we just broke up it was really sad we both cried the bad thing is that we live in the same house different rooms but the thing is that now that I lost him I really want him back I am very scared and alone and all my feelings come rushing back but I don't know if he still feels the same... what should I do... should I just give him some time and then maybe fight for him?

Yes, Well 4 years is a long relation, Give him some time, who knows he might fight for you to.

Who did the breaking up?

There's a difference between breaking up because the relationship failed and wanting to get back together just because you are lonely.

If you can't fix the problems that broke you up in the first place, then getting back together is only going to end up in another break up.

It's normal to feel lonely after a break up, that's why people go on the rebound. I suggest that you try to spend more time with your friends to distract yourself. Don't go back to him because you feel lonely.

I see your dealing with the same question I am dealing with. Its very hard to live in the same house with out seeing each other. If it was something you did its better if you could talk o him and change things up if it was something he did just try to act like you didn't do anything to him as you are in the same house you can help him by dong several things just don't fight with him. Just do this a week and f things are the same send me an email to [email protected] . I'll help you sweety

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