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brittneyB.
Nov 11, 2011, 05:12 PM
I need help trying to figure out who is the father of my 2month old daughter.

I can't remember the exact date of when I had my period. But hopefully the info. That I provide can help some in helping me figure this out.

He claims the last day him and I had sex was Nov. 24th. Well in Dec. I had my period. I also had sex with the guy who was my boyfriend at the time.

I found out in Jan. that I was pregnant. I said the first day I had my last period was dec. 7th. So with that it set my due date on sept. 18th.

I ended up having her a week early. I had her on sept. 14th. This is all based on what I told them about my last period. But like I said I can't remember for sure when the first day of my last period was.

I am getting a DNA test done but the guy who was my boyfriend at the time has no clue I cheated on him. This kills me every day. But this is VERY important that I figure this out before the dna test is done because the guy I cheated on my boyfriend with is white.

My boyfriend at the time is mixed. Black and italian. I am white whit red hair my daughter has red hair. IDK if seeing a picture of the 2 men and a picture of her will help someone in helping out or not but if a picture will help just ask me to send you a picture of all 3 of them.
PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!

smoothy
Nov 11, 2011, 05:25 PM
You aren't going to know for certain until the baby is born and you do a DNA test... anything else is taking a wild guess. Exact date of conception is impossible to determine (unless that was the only time you was with a man at all)... they can only guess an approximate time frame. They might guess within weeks... but not days.

Fr_Chuck
Nov 11, 2011, 06:39 PM
There is no way to be 100 percent sure without a DNA test

Photos mean nothing, my adopted son looks much more like me than my natural children do.

And within a couple weeks of each other, it could be either man.

NailTech
Nov 27, 2011, 09:31 AM
You should just tell your boyfriend the truth, there is no need to lie to him about something so serious. You were in control of yourself when you decided to have sex with two people unprotected so you should take responsibility of letting them both know you had sex with both of them around the time you got pregnant.

It's hard to guess who would be the actual father of your child because the actual gestation period of a pregnancy is longer than nine months.

I hope all things come out for you in the end but you should be truthful with those involved, even though it seems to be a scary process for you.