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petra 17
Feb 8, 2007, 01:33 AM
My cousins boyfriendis sending me texts such as :
'Whats your faviorite hobbies ?
And I replied doing nothing
Then he said that he has always taken an interest in me
He also said that I was mysterious and he likes a good mystery
Is he flirting or just being EXTRA friendly .
He also mentioned about him and my cousin being together for 4 months.
He keeps mentioning her but keeps talking about me and seems interested.
What can I say to stop him and should I tell her??
lvkitten
May 9, 2007, 12:29 PM
Uh yeah I would say that he is being more than friendly. But that's not your fault just simply tell him to stop and if he persists you persistently tell him to stop. And yes you should tell her. Would you want her to stay with someone like that even if he stops flirting with you who else could he be flirting with or maybe worse?
SnaveLeber
May 9, 2007, 12:37 PM
I would block all communication to him... and tell my cousin... also showing the texts, and showing my replies. Your cousin could take this the wrong way and think that you want to be with him... but hopefully this situation won't turn out like a disney sitcom.
Just be sure to talk calmly to your cousin, and that you are telling her with her best interests at heart.
Let her know that you are there for her, and will have her back no matter what decision she makes...
ST3V3NZBABYZMAMII
May 12, 2007, 03:07 PM
TELL HER! i would trust me blood is thicker then water and no matter what this guy may be there for a couple of months but she will alwayz be your cousin!
Hailie
Jun 22, 2011, 01:03 PM
This isnt simple ... if you get another text i would go up to your cousin and put the texts in her face and tell her not to say a word to her bf. then i would (wich is not nice and can be dangerouse) then i would go and send a flirting text back to him (with your cousin knowing) and should try to text him if he starts flirting with you and stuff ... you say (pretending) I dont like my cousin that much and stuff and if he asks YOU out then i'll suggest that your cousin should send him a "were over messege" and if he isnt cheating on her then i'll say the other way around but beware about your cousin :)
Hope i helped tc and Good good luck :D :D :D :\
Byee xo