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lianne11
Nov 10, 2011, 08:50 AM
My father passed away in December last year, he was married for 5years and there is me and my brother left, she has got his ashes and has a new boyfriend has done since 7month, she has got no intentions of putting my dad to rest proply all I want is that I have some where to go and visit him but she is not intrested, is there anything have I got any right to get his ashes and do something nice with them.

ebaines
Nov 10, 2011, 09:06 AM
It's up to the executor of your father's estate to make the determination as to what to do with the ashes. So - who was the executor? And did your father's will say anything about what he wanted to be done with his remains?

cdad
Nov 10, 2011, 01:55 PM
What you can do is talk with her and get a memorial going where he may eventually lay at rest after she has passed. It will give you a place to go to during the interim.