About 3 days ago my girlfriend noticed a lump about the size of a grape behind her ear on her hairline she said it hurts A lot! She can't pop that ear and it makes her neck and throat hurt, I'm really scared for her cause a while back I had something like it on my ear in the same spot and went to the doctors and he said it was just a cyst but mine didn't hurt... hers does which scares me. If anyone can help I would appreciate it a lot