Well me and my girlfriend would have been togather for 3 years. Deeply in love.. Within the past year we had one bad breakup she left me for another but months later realized she couldn't be without me. We then got back togather and stayed togather 5months. Then we had a breakup and I walked out this time.. I thought we would get bak togather but we didn't.and without thinking I ended up in another relationship to Distract me.. I needed someone to keep my mind off her.but it was someone she hated.. She knows I love her very much and id like to believe she loves me. I am very close to her family and she knws I come around everyonce in a while.. We haven't been togather sense that breakup(2 1/2 months now), but she doesn't want anything to do with me.. She don't hate me but she doesn't want to get close. She will get in contact with me for random little reasons and I will too.. but she still says she's happy with life and does not want to be with me.. I love her so much and I know she loves me I can feel it in my heart it was meant to be.. I will never give up faith and hope.. Please reply with opinions and advice.. I just feel lost and I can't picture life without her..

Or should I ask.. Will she come back..

I think it's dead and buried now. She says she's happy, so it's best to leave it be honey.If you were together for 3 years, then yes, she more than likely does still love you, but you both need to get over each other now.

And trying to make her jealous with the girl she hates will only make things worse, she'll wonder why you wanted to hurt her.

X Dani

How do I get over it as I made my whole life about her? Im in a place I can't stand because its were she is and wants to be. I. Cutt off friends. Her family became mine. And now she wants nothing of me. Her dad seems to believe different will happen. And recently found out she has a new person in her life. And I didn't get with that person to make her jelous.. It was just a rebound attempting to try and get over her.

What can you do to get back to a place that you do like?

Get in touch with your old friends. They may be waiting for you to contact them. It may take some apologizing, but good friendships are really hard to lose. They get set aside sometimes, but they are still there.

Get out and do things for yourself that you enjoy. Find hobbies/interests which help you feel good about yourself. Build up your relationship with yourself. Meet new people and make new friends. Forget serious dating (or using someone as a crutch) until you have let go of the hurt and false hope. Have fun learning how to be single again.

You need to break off all contact with her and as much as it hurts, her family too until you are in a more emotionally stable place where she is concerned. You don't need to give yourself false hope. Her father is also giving you hope when he shouldn't be.

Take care of yourself and make your life your own again.

I know exactly what you mean and its true. Its just hard when I am still a teen and I live house to house.(after we broke up). I do not live with my parents or family. She was literally all I had. But maybe that's why I'm so attached?

Do you mind sharing how old you are and what your relationship with your parents/family is like?

I am turning 18 I am very mature for my age. And I'm not close with then. My dad wants nothing of me and my mom is to worried about guys. Me and my sister and brothers are all spread out.

I also just posted a more detalied discription of my situation. .