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RNM
Nov 6, 2011, 09:01 PM
Hi,
So this guy I was talking about that I met a couple of weeks ago, we went on a date a week ago, he said how happy he was I wrote to him and he had been thinking about me and he was hoping I would contact him so we could go on a date. So we went on a date, a few drinks went down, but we had such a good time. He said a lot of things, very quickly, like how I was so dreamy, he wanted to be with me, he had been thinking about me all the time. I told him he was talking too fast about those things, and I just wanted to take it slow. We saw each other couple of more times, we don't really text that much. But its better when we see each other. After we sleep together he gets up and starts talking and rambling on about stuff, is that a bad sign ? He also said he broke up with his girlfriend a few weeks ago? He said he never loved her. He said he only wanted me. Can I still trust him? He farts and has not washed up at his place, I don't like that, should I judge him for that? He is a business man though. Now he doesn't write to me much, and just the other day he said he likes me just as mcuh as he did the first time he saw me. He said he is looking for a serious relationship. Does he want me or just a girlfriend ?

Wondergirl
Nov 6, 2011, 09:13 PM
I don't want to burst your bubble (or his), but isn't it a bit soon to be sleeping together after dating just a few weeks (or am I just an old-fashioned out-of-touch crone?). And he is just out of another serious relationship?

Can you back up the bus a bit? Or at least stop it from speeding headlong down the hill?

J_9
Nov 6, 2011, 09:18 PM
Is this the same guy?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-take-slow-607815.html