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Lollypopgirl
Nov 6, 2011, 04:09 AM
People keep asking me if I go out with my best friend (he is a boy and I also have a girl best firend) when they all know that I am going out with someone else I don't like the dude in the love way but he keeps on asking me out be his partner and everything and once he asked me to go the school dance with him, I would feel really bad if I said no even if I said it because I was going with my boyfriend and now he keeps on aking me out on dates. And sending me text saying I love you! Break up with your boyfriend and everything.
What should I do?
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DoulaLC
Nov 6, 2011, 05:34 AM
You need to set him straight that you are just friends with him and that you aren't interested in anything more than that. Tell him he is a great friend, but you just don't have those kinds of feelings for him. You are happy with your boyfriend.

You could also tell him that his asking you out is bothering you and that you would really hate to see it ruin your friendship. If he simply won't stop, start to distance yourself a bit from him. Spend more time with your girlfriends. Don't reply to his text. Sooner or later he will get the message.