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dipesh103008
Nov 5, 2011, 07:15 PM
Hi

My wife is very rude. We are married for 10 years but stay togeth for 5 year. I brought my parents from my country and they are also living with me. We have one baby boy. Whenever I help my family back to my country, my wife is fighting with me and also she fights with my mom too.

Now she doesn't want to stay with my parents. I want to keep everyone happy, and I want all of us to stay together. My wife blames it all on my mother. Whenever something happens between myself and my wife, she says she wants a divorce.

She know all about my account too, she doesn't trust me.

Please help

Dazzor
Nov 6, 2011, 09:58 AM
I'd say its normal for people to blame others, if you would fail something wouldn't you blame others? Now the fact that she doesn't trust you isn't good but
Couples to tend to fight and its normal. And in all honesty you should tell your wife that your mother doesn't want her harm, but sometimes things happen not according to your life long plan. You should also tell her, that you have the right to think you don't have to constantly agree with her, and believe me
Life would be pretty boring if everyone thought the same wouldn't you say? But most importently does she really want her young boy to grow alone? Give her a thing or two to think about.

Exodusliberty
Nov 30, 2011, 11:56 AM
I think that the relation between her and your mother is one example of Many problems that originate between parents and their daughter/son in law.Sometimes because of the way they think this has been the case with my grandmother. She was a young girl during 1940 in italy growing up in a harsh family life the old or past minded way of thinking usually conflicts with a new way of thinking usually open minded and more acceptant of new lifstyles such as people who are gay or lesbians. Listen to the problem of both sides and try to find a solution mutually beneficial to all of you.