Nidz7
Nov 4, 2011, 10:12 AM
I am in a relationship for 2 years but never celebrated any anniversary together or any occasion together. We broke up plenty of times in this relationship. He is 4 years older to me but I have put a lot of effort to maintain the relationship. Last year he left me because he was in depression but I still stood with him, He left me when his mother came here for holiday for whole one month and didn't even bother to call me. I was shocked looking at his behavior toward me when his mother was here. His mother was not at all happy with our relationship but he left me completely by my own. He agreed to marry some other girl who was in love with him as soon as I heard news I was shocked, my tears were coming out day and night, I was very ill, hurt, depressed, shocked in tears with his behavior but he didn't even care. Didn't even stand with me when I needed him but he choose his mother instead. As soon as his mother left the country he started contacting me back and apologized I gave him another chance but he never realized his mistake, he kept on traumatizing me, we kept on having arguments.
After a year and half of relationship I convinced him to speak to that girl who loves him but after the phone call, we had argument as he was in really upset to tell her that he is in relationship.
I always told him that I feel that I am the man of this relationship, but for him its very simple. He never feels my pain. He promises that he will marry me but when I discuss about marriage further he just sits quiet. He has never appreciate the things that I have done for me, learned cooking, speaking his language, mixing with his friends, looking after him when he needs me to support but all he will do in return is say Thanks, but when I tell him I want you to that understand how I feel rather than thanks. He never cares.
I really need the answer...
After a year and half of relationship I convinced him to speak to that girl who loves him but after the phone call, we had argument as he was in really upset to tell her that he is in relationship.
I always told him that I feel that I am the man of this relationship, but for him its very simple. He never feels my pain. He promises that he will marry me but when I discuss about marriage further he just sits quiet. He has never appreciate the things that I have done for me, learned cooking, speaking his language, mixing with his friends, looking after him when he needs me to support but all he will do in return is say Thanks, but when I tell him I want you to that understand how I feel rather than thanks. He never cares.
I really need the answer...