Tinker.Tinker
Nov 3, 2011, 02:56 PM
Hi, everyone!
I'm 26 and I met my boyfriend almost 3 years ago. He has unusually thick penis- and the first time we had sex I could really feel it that is was massive. After some time I decided not to see him again because my vagina was in so much pain- every time we had sex it felt like a razor blade was cutting my vaginal opening. We still ended up together. And finally after about 6 months together, I randomly, decided to grab a mirror and have a look down there.
What I saw was quite shocking! When you spread your inner lips, you can see where the inner lips are connected to inside of your vagina- on one side, I had a long tear and that bit was hanging and it really looked odd. It would get irritated every time we had sex, unless I was extremely aroused- then it didn't hurt.
Now, 2 years later- I still have that tear, it doesn't hurt anymore but it doesn't "glue" back together. Has anyone else had that happen to them? Should I just learn to live with it and get stitches after I have my kids?
It's seems very unusual for me, as when women give birth, they tend to normally tear towards the anus on the outside (perineum?), and not like my cut.
Does anyone know what could have been the possible cause for it?
Thank you for your answers in advance.
I'm 26 and I met my boyfriend almost 3 years ago. He has unusually thick penis- and the first time we had sex I could really feel it that is was massive. After some time I decided not to see him again because my vagina was in so much pain- every time we had sex it felt like a razor blade was cutting my vaginal opening. We still ended up together. And finally after about 6 months together, I randomly, decided to grab a mirror and have a look down there.
What I saw was quite shocking! When you spread your inner lips, you can see where the inner lips are connected to inside of your vagina- on one side, I had a long tear and that bit was hanging and it really looked odd. It would get irritated every time we had sex, unless I was extremely aroused- then it didn't hurt.
Now, 2 years later- I still have that tear, it doesn't hurt anymore but it doesn't "glue" back together. Has anyone else had that happen to them? Should I just learn to live with it and get stitches after I have my kids?
It's seems very unusual for me, as when women give birth, they tend to normally tear towards the anus on the outside (perineum?), and not like my cut.
Does anyone know what could have been the possible cause for it?
Thank you for your answers in advance.