Hi All,

Me and my boyfriend have been split up for 11 weeks now. This was due to money issues he had, and he is sorting them out now! We agreed first to get back together the end of March 2012 but I have recently seen him and told him how I am not coping. I have lost nearly 3 stone in this time! We have come to a compromise that we will get back together New Years Eve and see the new year with fresh start. Also that we would talk every day and see each other a few times! I feel bad contacting him though, as I don't want to drive him mad! I just don't know how I'm going to make it 7 weeks to Christmas?

Thanks Natalie

I think in a lot of cases, distance can I either bring you together or tear you apart. Since you guys have been separated, how have your feelings changed? Have they gotten stronger? Do u feel yourself not thinking about him as much? And honestly, can you picture your life without him?

I miss him so much and it has made me realise how much I love him, and he tells me the same too! When we see each other on Sunday he cried I cried! I think about him every minute of every day! I don't want to live my life without him? This has made us realise how much we mean to each other I just don't know how to get through the next few weeks until we get back together?

Edited for chat/text.

My suggestion is to surround yourself with positive friends, and family members to kind of ease your mind a little. The more active you stay, the easier it is to get through it! Keep your eye on the prize, so to speak! LOL.

The same way you did for the eleven weeks apart? Stay busy, focus on yourself, and don't think about this. Honestly, I think scheduling a relationship like this is unhealthy, but that is just my opinion.