Honestly, I am not bothered by porn, I assume most men watch it. When my boyfriend and I first started dating I asked about it and he said he didn't watch it because he had me but now I asked again because our sex life has dwindled down to maybe once or twice a month. When I asked he said he does then said, "At least I am not thinking about girls we now. I only watch it because we never have time" That was what threw me off. We live within walking distance of each other yet he says we are both so busy and we can't fit it in but I disagree. I see him often enough but he is never in the mood because he would have already masturbated. So he gets his fix, while I get nothing. He barely even looks at me anymore. What do I need to do to get his attention back or is he just too into porn?

Don't worry too much about it, when men watch it, they know the ladies in the movie but the ladies don't know them! Think like this, that might reduce your concern. :)